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Ants' familyEverything is from nothing May 12 some bullshit the more happiness I have, the more sadness follows. my mind stuck in somewhere....never ever get it back when i said u got the gift and u must be happy all the time u said u don't know how struggling I am finally i realized everyone is like this.... loneliness behind proud growing up comes with loneliness............. loneliness comes with hopelessness..... building a hope then shooting it down.... happiness then sadness.... this is how we grow up... aimless walking, aimless fighting, unsatisfied dying.... April 14 谢谢亲爱的 谢谢亲爱的送我向日葵 谢谢亲爱的不远万里去frementle为我买来风格各异的小兔子 谢谢亲爱的送我祝福 谢谢亲爱的短信 谢谢亲爱的黑灯瞎火地满大街找我 谢谢亲爱的开车送我上学 谢谢亲爱的帮我理清思路 谢谢亲爱的帮我翻译 谢谢亲爱的总在那里等我 谢谢亲爱的。。。。。。。。。 我永远爱你 亲爱的~我们认真学习，努力工作~明天一定会好的！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！ 好文一篇（转）一个人越成熟，就越能面对不合理。详细地来说，一个人之所以不成熟，主要源自个体对于世界的合理性想象和要求。比如以下想法：“因为我爱你，所以你应该爱我”；或者，“因为我付出了努力，所以我应该得到回报”…… 在这样的合理性不能得以实现的时候，大多数人把不合理的结果当作伤害。当这一类伤害过多的时候，大多数人开始变化——比如，变得不如最初那样善良、纯真、热情、阳光、正直…… 人性可以多坚强？在面对不合理性的漫长人生中，坚持自我的耐心和本性，有着千差万别的不同。大多数人觉察不到自己的变化，人们觉得自己沉郁了，没以前开心了，看问题更消极负面了，对人比较冷静了，但这些正是变化的过程。 然而，放弃对于合理性的追求，是所有变化中最坏的一种。一部分人参与到制造不合理性的大军中，加剧世界的荒谬。所以人生的不合理性，很大程度上来自于个体合谋的自我复制。 成熟的过程是，不放弃对合理性的追求，但放弃对于合理性的必然期待。这之间的区别在于，不能因为大多数的结果都不合理，就不再相信会有合理的结果。比如，不能因为爱的失败，就放弃对于爱的追求；但是，不能继续认为爱的付出必然会有合理的回报。 睁开眼看看周围，几乎没有几个人是合理的，没有几件事是合理的，但这就是真实的生活，我们需要成熟地面对这个现实，乐观向上、欢天喜地地面对荒谬的世界和人生，同时设法改变与自己相关的那一点点；或者，这一点点我们也改变不了，那么，至少还是要保持清醒的认识，能够分辨哪些是合理的，并且相信，那些微若萤火的合理性，才是这个世界的美好和值得我们留恋的生命之花。 March 16 speechlessssssssssssssssssswo hen sheng qi !!!! hen nao huo~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!han nao huo! hen nao huo! hen nao huo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but i know....there must be a reason for anger, but the reason is never ever convincible.... January 17 Whispers in the DarkDespite the lies that you're making Your love is mine for the taking My love is just waiting To turn your tears to roses Despite the lies that you're making Your love is mine for the taking My love is just waiting To turn your tears to roses I will be the one that's gonna hold you I will be the one that you run to My love is a burning, consuming fire No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes I'll light the night with stars Hear my whispers in the dark No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes you know I'm never far Hear the whispers in the dark Whispers in the dark You feel so lonely and ragged You lay there broken and naked My love is just waiting To clothe you in crimson roses I will be the one that's gonna find you I will be the one that's gonna guide you My love is a burning, consuming fire No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes I'll light the night with stars Hear my whispers in the dark No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes you know I'm never far Hear the whispers in the dark No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes I'll light the night with stars Hear the whispers in the dark No, you'll never be alone When darkness comes you know I'm never far Hear the whispers in the dark |
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